Monday, June 22, 2009

Church and random thoughts

We had a pretty good sacrament meeting last week. It was a testimony meeting, so it's always interesting to see what you're going to get in a new ward. Before the meeting, there was a couple sitting 2 rows in front of us. He is an intern pastor who is going/moving to Utah to preach, so he came to our ward to see what the Mormons were all about. During the meeting, a new convert who is a tall, old black man with gray hair, stood up and bore his testimony about how great the gospel is and how glad he is that he found it. Then a Latina lady stood up and talked about how her eye sight had been spared from a genetic disease (long story ;), then our high councilor stood up (another older black man with white hair, who's name is Brother White ;) and talk about how it had been over 30 years since the announcement that "a person of color" as he put it, could hold the priesthood. He talked about how awesome that is and how wonderful the church is. It was one of those moments where you feel so overwhelmed by the spirit and have such a strong witness that the gospel is true. It was a great meeting. We have an interesting, diverse ward. I had to teach a RS lesson yesterday, which I was nervous about. It was on redeeming the dead, which is pretty unique to our religion. There were a few investigators there, so I wasn't sure what kind of response/questions I wold get. But luckily it all went fine. One of the investigators came up to me after (she's a southern baptist) and said that she thought it was beautiful that you could get baptized for someone who died and didn't have the chance to. I'm glad she caught the essence of the lesson.

Yesterday a family who had recently moved out of the ward came back to visit. He was an ENT resident at UC and just finished and got a job in Colorado. I saw her in the hall and asked her if I was going to survive the next 5 years. She said, "You're the one who's husband is doing ENT!" And then she just hugged me. I asked her for any advise and she said, "It is going to be really, really hard. But don't get a divorce because it would be hard on the kids and not make things better." I jokingly asked for the name of her therapist and she said in all seriousness, "Well I'd give it to you, but I'm sad to say that he moved away." Hmm... Med school was hard on all of us. Really hard. Am I up for this? I just wonder if I'm strong enough to do it alone. I guess this is the time to prove myself to myself...

Sorry for the rambling. I can't get my pictures off the camera for some reason, but I promise to post some as soon as I can. I guess I had better run to Lowes. I am supposed to be hanging blinds today and finishing painting the girls' ceiling. I don't think I'll want to paint again for a long, long time.

7 comments:

Kristina said...

It is great to hear from you! I am glad you are settling in, and I hope that you can find some really great supporters in Cinncinnati. We miss you guys! Glad that your new ward is so neat. How wonderful to learn from people with such diverse backgrounds and experiences. Can't wait to see the pics of the house.

Al and Jenny said...

Oh man, Heather, somebody said the same thing to me yesterday. "Oh, your husband is the one doing the general surgery..." And then an "I'm sorry." and "Call me if you ever need anything." It made me feel a little sick and a little resentful :( Uh oh...I think I'm being a little too honest here.

Anyway, I wish I were there to hang out with you :)

Becky said...

Glad you enjoyed your fast and testimony meeting. We usually have good ones here too.
I'm sure you can handle the next 5 years. If anyone can it is you. Although I can totally relate to being a "single mom" sometimes.
I was so scared about having #2 that I got myself hooked up with help till the beginning of October.
Just remember to ask for help if you need it! Everyone needs help sometimes. Especially me.
Good luck with the painting. I'm impressed that you are doing it with 2 kids. You really are super mom!

Linzi Lou, Samantha Boo, Madi Moo, and Chris too said...

Heather, I know you can do it without a doubt! You will just have to find another great therapist....he he he. I wish I could have heard your lesson, it sounds like it was great.

Jon and Nicole said...

Hang in there! Life is hard, and being married isn't easy either. Add to it putting your husband through school (been there, done that-) and it's even harder. Everything that's worth anything, takes lots of work. I know you can do it! And hey, if you need a therapist, get one. Sometimes I wish my insurance would cover a good therapist. What can it hurt? :) Good luck!

thehaucks said...

Your ward sounds so great. And residency sounds scary! Good luck! Just take things one at a time, right? Good luck!

Shannon said...

That was fun to read about! Yikes on the residency. I think you should just plan to take lots and lots of trips back here. :P